Wednesday, July 20, 2011

How to deal with codependent mother?

My mom's in her mid 50's, and im about early 20's. My mom had some troubled past that led to her anxiety and rejection to reality. The problem is, my mom was never that independent to begin with, but in a way that she did what she wanted and still had a place to come back to with my dad. She divorced m dad 2 years ago b/c of differences, and she's still with a deadbeat husband that cannot be found. Right now my dad doesn't want anything to do with my mom, and I'm her only emotional support, she still have a few friends left and she can only go out if there are people she knows. Lately she hasn't need me physically with her too much, but she still calls me 10 times a day, and have to see me if there are no one with her. Her doc has been telling her that she needs to practice going out by herself atleast once a week, but she hasn't been doing that for a while. I unfortunately is very emotional too, my health isn't that great either, and my work is stressful. There's many things I want to do for her but don't know how or have he patience to. Ever time when I tell my mom about how she should think about gettin better and start doing something for her future, she tells me that she doesn't think she'll live that long anyways.

Do I need a data plan?

I'm interested in buying an unlocked Samsung GT-S5620 Monte, but I don't know if my SIM card will work in it. Is it considered a "smart" phone? I bought an unlocked Samsung GT-S5230 a few months ago and my SIM card works perfectly in it, but I heard that you absolutely NEED a data plan if you want to use a smartphone, even if it's unlocked. I DON'T have a data plan, so that's why I was wondering if the Samsung Monte is considered a smart phone, and if my SIM card would work in it even thought I don't have a data plan of any sort. Any help would be appreciated...

Dont understand what ive done wrong here?

I think that you need to talk to her and tell her how you feel like "i really like you and i don't want this to come between us" or something like that. Apologise and grovel until she speaks to you again, and then try and find out what you did wrong. Don't confront her angrily, but be kind and patient, and I'm sure everything will work out in the end :)

Can I turn my engine into a high output motor?

I have a 1988 Monte Carlo LS with the 305 V8. The SS model of that year had the 305 H.O. My question is, is it possible to convert my engine to the high output version found in the SS. If so, what would I need to do?

How to make my car not shut down?

I have a 1996 Monte Carlo that shuts down at 104mph. I know it can go faster because it's only tacking at 3 grand out of 5. How can i make my car stop shutting me down. I know it could harm the motor.

How to get ringtones from a computer to a cell phone?

I already have the ringtones saved as music files, but when I send them in an email as attachments, they don't work. My phone is the Verizon Samsung Reality.

How to deal with college depression?

I just had my college orientation, and while a normal person would be super excited about attending, i am nervous and depressed. i am horrible at making friends and i just never know how to meet people and have them like me. people judge me because of my acne, so that doesn't help the situation. i am nervous the classes will be too hard and I will lonely and I won't fit in in such a large university. there were so many students at orientation and when i first got there nobody knew each other, but by the time i left it seemed like everyone already had a group of friends but me and it just really hurts. how can i get excited about going away to school. i used to be excited, but now that reality is sinking in, i am more nervous/depressed about it.